The Woman Who Feeds Me At Night
Could you imagine hiding who you love after spending millions to marry her? Do you still feel shy to go out with your beloved at night?. During courtship, majority of us target one particular thing, that is marriage. Of late, this has been the strategy of many guys, “I love you, I am not coming into your life for dating sake, in fact I want us to build on our relationship and finally get married”.
I don’t really know whether girls have realised that that is the strategy most guys are using now but hey!, Marriage as an excuse for true love?, “Nyame nsa wom”.
Irrespective of who you are, there is one particular guy or girl dying for your heart, Yes the true love. We normally rush into relationships thinking that Oh yes I think this is really the right person, what happens is that we fall for each other and at least sustain ourselves for months and at most 1-2 years and broken heart takes over !.
Interestingly, we fall in love thinking there is no way we would be hurt by each other but heeey!!! the story turns to be different. True love?, Does it even exist in the first place? Well, time will tell.
When I felt in love, I realised young relationship has this normal routine: Love, ‘ bedroom enjoyment’, other fun activities and finally broken heart. I normally wonder whether this is how it is in marriage.
At my tender age, my grandfather established the fact that love is sweet but it is only sweet when you are with the right person. After all aside sex, what is so precious again a woman can offer?, this is just one of the silly thoughts which runs through my mind. In a way, I felt I was right because I had a believe that after all, I am hardworking which is one of the core prerequisites to a good life as a young man, Until I met this woman who feeds me at night, I felt I could make it alone.
I was blind, thinking life is all about friends, family, girls and my job but my woman gave me a different taste of life. It is indeed hard to find a God fearing lady of late, don’t you even attest to that fact?. How sweet it is to be with a woman who feeds you spiritually at night. Not forgetting the woman who brings you to the banqueting house and her banner over you is love , what of the one who sustains you with raisins and refreshes you with apples and at the same time encourages you to pray?
Oh that’s so wonderful!. Are you in need of one? My brother pray to God. If your woman does not draw you close to God, in fact discuss about God with you, have a second thought!
The woman who feeds you at night is the one who wakes you at night to go on your kneels and pray, they are hard to find but remember if you find one, handle her with care. Your woman must feed you! Yes spiritually.
By: Adu-Gyamfi Kumi Robert